Iona Yvonne Jones
Iona Yvonne Jones in 2000
My grandma was the greatest person that I know. I mean she took me under her wing even when she had five children of her own. My memory isn't that good anymore. I know I wasn't a good child and had lots of issues, but my grandma loved me anyway. Growing up I always thought that my grandma was trying to keep me from my mom, when in fact my mom didn't want me. I'm grateful for everything Grandma and Grandpa has done for me (even though I never showed it).
My grandma has taught me how to be a good mother. I know every time I was hurt grandma was there. When I needed someone to talk to Grandma was there. I miss her more and more everyday day. And I'm sorry for all the hurt I have ever caused. All Grandma was trying to do was love me. After BJ and I got together, we would come and visit. Grandma and I would stay up for hours and talk. I miss her giving me advice. I believe that if it wasn't for grandma, I would have turned out like my mother. I almost did.
I guess I can really say that when I truly needed someone I had my grandma. I wish she could be here to see how my children are doing. With BJ serving in Iraq, its just me and the kids. I do things for my children. Take care of things around the house. Just be there for my children when they are upset or sick. I don't think I would be doing any of these things if it wasn't for Grandma and Grandpa and their love and caring.
Written by Chantel Jones Patterson in Carnes, Mississippi, 2005